Dinner time, on the way heading to Cheras – as usual dad fetch Uncle Cheung. So okay…I just keep quite and “pay fully attention” towards what the elderly would chat about. Blablablabla…So automatically I pull out my cell phone jus send few message. “Ting…” My phone rang because message, thank god this message does save my life – my boring life. Okay…from Amy, member of Pork Union. Okay...she’s doing fine in Malacca and the exclusive news was she got a boyfriend!!!

Erm…I hurry reply it and congrats gal. Last wishes to her were “True love never goes easy”. Okay… question – People do need love? Not necessary from “pak toh” (loving couple type), love from family, friends will do help also, right? Erm…I mean for a student like me, as my mom say, just focus on your studies do not pak toh yea. BEHAVE!!! Okay okay… I listen and re-think the question and “order” few times, mostly my friends do have their partner and such a loving couple they are (not the time where they fight or quarrel…oh that’s terrible!) Yet at times I would share their story with my mom, she will like, “Ew…see! If let me know that you’re hooked up with some guy, WATCHOUT!! Is like she’s using the microphone yelling at me, reminding me DON’T ever pak toh during college life, better do when working because I got financial support.

One of my cousin just got married because p@#%$^t, so okay. The boy (my cousin) just 20, and the bride, 16 if I’m not mistaken. Okay, what I think they would not have a happy ending because they are still young and yet does not have any career (now their family help to support their financial – as the elderly used to say “just add on 1 more pair chopstick when having dinner”. Erm…as long as their parents, my uncle could support it what do I care for? Why would I say their marriage would not last? Because they just too young to get married and do not know each other well and so on. They get together because of obligation. Just have to say, now we are living in 21st century man, who cares you married and divorce??? Yea, true! Its common…why would I being so kolot???

What I think it’s really make sense sometimes, two people going out have to spend $$$ in double. IF your boyfriend was a gentleman sure they will pay for all automatically. But I would not like people pay for me even boyfriend, I prefer “AA zai” (pay our own)…except my mom because ATM what – Auto Telling Mother!!!

*I heard an interesting thing before from a Taiwan Host. What he says does make sense also and it will reduce the rate of people divorce.

A and B just hooked for few months so they plan to get married. Such good news. They are getting married; they are busying doing the arrangement for wedding stuffs. Okay…on the wedding feast night they are very busy; serve and toasting and chit chatting around. They do not even have time for their dinner. After the wedding feast, they went back home, ate Maggie mee because they have nothing for the whole day. Okay…fine! A, the girl do think and says, “Wow… unbelievable, couldn’t imagine a marriage could be so hectic and busy, we better don’t divorce ya. Because I do not want to go over this again. Once is enough!!!”

Based on the lifestyle I am having now, I got LOVE – from friends, parents, and so on. So about being a loving couple??? Erm…just maybe I would say Mr. Right have not turn out yet, is just not the right time (I do not have faith yea). Ha-ha…why would I suddenly talking about this interesting subject??? Would not know, just…

As last….to Kavita, Chui Ling, Andy and those who are single now.

SINGLE MANSEI (Longevity)!!!

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PP